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To love yourself
Very often I read about Littles/Middles desperately wanting a Daddy to love them and I very often get messages from sweet people who tell me about their struggles with self acceptance, so I thought I will try to guide you through the process of love.
Many of you out there, whether you are a little, middle, ABDL, Daddy etc. search for on thing that you think only someone else can give you: Unconditional love. Someone to take care of you. Someone who makes you feel wanted, cherished, needed. Littles are not that different from Daddys and Mommys here. It’s a lovely, awesome symbiosis that both parts gain a lot from, if they are willing to give.
But this is, where you forget: You can be your Daddy. You can be your Little. You can love yourself unconditionally. You can take care of yourself, treat yourself to nice things, make yourself feel needed and wanted. By yourself.
I know, this sounds really dumb and you may say “Well, but getting this from someone else is much better.” right? But this is where you go wrong. Exepct for towards yourself, you ARE ‘someone else’. To me, to all my readers expect you, you are the ‘someone else’ they may want this love from. So why don’t you start giving it to yourself? Be ‘someone else’ for yourself.
Start taking care of you. Treat yourself not to sweet, but to healthy food. Dress up all pretty and take a lot of selfies to celebrate your beauty. Go out and do fun stuff all by yourself and discover things you may not have been able to discover, if another person was with you. Take time for yourself. Write a love letter adressed at you. Take time to love yourself more than anyone else for some hours, days, weeks. Because you know what? You deserve this. You are awesome. And if you think you suck, your life is a mess and you maybe even have these really bad thoughts about not wanting to live anymore, please try it.
Try to treat yourself the way you would treat your Little, Mommy or Daddy. Embrace all your sweet quirks, laugh about the tiny mistakes you make, take pictures of the things you failed at, just to realize a bit later that failing is not bad at all and wondering how you could feel bad about such a small thing. Be the person you want to marry. Be the person you long for. Make yourself your number one and I can promise you, you will feel everything you ever wanted.
Putting yourself first ist not bad. It’s what you should do. Once you learned how to love yourself as deeply and passionately as I wish you would, you will most like find someone else to share this love with. And I also may add this: Loving someone who loves himself is much more fun than loving someone and constantly having to convince them about how great they are. I am sure you knew or still know someone like this. Maybe your partner, your friend, your sibling. Someone you think is a really cool person, but they just don’t want to believe you, when you tell them how lovely they are. Well guess what, so are you.
See yourself the way you see other people. You don’t scan their skin for flaws. You don’t judge their way of living. You don’t stare at them for hours to find things that people may find unattractive. You see them and you either think nothing at all or you have a compiment in mind. Things like “Oh, his hair is really fancy.”, “Wow, she looks awesome in those jeans”, “Aw, what a nice perfume he’s wearing.” “I love the music that is coming out of her earphones”. Those are the things you think when you encounter strangers, friends or family. Not “Her pimple makes her look like a disgusting little prick” or “That hair is nasty, you should have stayed inside.” No no no.
To love yourself should be your number one priority. You are beautiful and amazing and I want to be your friend. Did you hear me? Can you do this for me? Take care of yourself the way you want to take care of for others or beeing taken care of. Please try it. You are worth the effort. Okay?

littlesspace:

To love yourself

Very often I read about Littles/Middles desperately wanting a Daddy to love them and I very often get messages from sweet people who tell me about their struggles with self acceptance, so I thought I will try to guide you through the process of love.

Many of you out there, whether you are a little, middle, ABDL, Daddy etc. search for on thing that you think only someone else can give you: Unconditional love. Someone to take care of you. Someone who makes you feel wanted, cherished, needed. Littles are not that different from Daddys and Mommys here. It’s a lovely, awesome symbiosis that both parts gain a lot from, if they are willing to give.

But this is, where you forget: You can be your Daddy. You can be your Little. You can love yourself unconditionally. You can take care of yourself, treat yourself to nice things, make yourself feel needed and wanted. By yourself.

I know, this sounds really dumb and you may say “Well, but getting this from someone else is much better.” right? But this is where you go wrong. Exepct for towards yourself, you ARE ‘someone else’. To me, to all my readers expect you, you are the ‘someone else’ they may want this love from. So why don’t you start giving it to yourself? Be ‘someone else’ for yourself.

Start taking care of you. Treat yourself not to sweet, but to healthy food. Dress up all pretty and take a lot of selfies to celebrate your beauty. Go out and do fun stuff all by yourself and discover things you may not have been able to discover, if another person was with you. Take time for yourself. Write a love letter adressed at you. Take time to love yourself more than anyone else for some hours, days, weeks. Because you know what? You deserve this. You are awesome. And if you think you suck, your life is a mess and you maybe even have these really bad thoughts about not wanting to live anymore, please try it.

Try to treat yourself the way you would treat your Little, Mommy or Daddy. Embrace all your sweet quirks, laugh about the tiny mistakes you make, take pictures of the things you failed at, just to realize a bit later that failing is not bad at all and wondering how you could feel bad about such a small thing. Be the person you want to marry. Be the person you long for. Make yourself your number one and I can promise you, you will feel everything you ever wanted.

Putting yourself first ist not bad. It’s what you should do. Once you learned how to love yourself as deeply and passionately as I wish you would, you will most like find someone else to share this love with. And I also may add this: Loving someone who loves himself is much more fun than loving someone and constantly having to convince them about how great they are. I am sure you knew or still know someone like this. Maybe your partner, your friend, your sibling. Someone you think is a really cool person, but they just don’t want to believe you, when you tell them how lovely they are. Well guess what, so are you.

See yourself the way you see other people. You don’t scan their skin for flaws. You don’t judge their way of living. You don’t stare at them for hours to find things that people may find unattractive. You see them and you either think nothing at all or you have a compiment in mind. Things like “Oh, his hair is really fancy.”, “Wow, she looks awesome in those jeans”, “Aw, what a nice perfume he’s wearing.” “I love the music that is coming out of her earphones”. Those are the things you think when you encounter strangers, friends or family. Not “Her pimple makes her look like a disgusting little prick” or “That hair is nasty, you should have stayed inside.” No no no.

To love yourself should be your number one priority. You are beautiful and amazing and I want to be your friend. Did you hear me? Can you do this for me? Take care of yourself the way you want to take care of for others or beeing taken care of. Please try it. You are worth the effort. Okay?

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How to become a perfect little/ babygirl!I bet a lot of you wondered, how to be the perfect, most appealing and cutest babygirl/boy ever, and since I am a master at this, is will now teach you, how!Step 1: CutenessYou may have wondered, how some of us get so incredibly cute, because being cute is such an important trait in our community. It’s actually pretty easy. To become really cute, do the following things: Brush you hair, put on the clothes you feel most adorable in, sit down on the floor with a stuffie and smile. Done. Now you’re cute. There are other ways to become cute, if this didn’t work for you: Take a nice shower, using your favourite shower gel or shampoo, put a towel around your hip or chest, put yourself in front at a mirror and realize how freaking adorable you are. Or: Take a nap, wake up with fuzzy hair and drink something of your choice. Tada, now you’re cute.If you need more tips on how to become a cute person easily, just ask away!Step 2: The perfect bodyAre you feeling too thin, too chubby, too normal, too adult? I will help you achieve the perfect body for being a little/ babygirl/-boy. First: Make sure to drink 1,5 - 2 Liter of water or unsugared tea each day. Don’t be upset if you fail at this sometimes, because so do I. Failing is part of our cuteness, mentioned in ‘Step 1: Cuteness’. Second: Eat at least one healthy thing a day. A tomato, or an apple, some homemade soup or anything else you like, that’s fresh and not full of sugar. Third: Look at yourself the way you look at other people. Do you scan their skin for imperfections? Do you poke at their bones or bodyfat? Do you think they are disgusing? No. Most people you see, look perfectly fine to you. And guess what, so do you. Fourth: Done. Once you realized that, you have achieved the perfect body and everyone will start to ask you, how you got such an amazing outer appearance :DStep 3: BehaviourThis is a more tricky thing, because behaviour depends on what age you represent and what you feel like at that day, but I will try to make this easy for you:Age 1-5: If you feel like using a diaper, cool for you. But you’re just as amazing, if you don’t. You hate pacifiers? That’s no problem, nobody has to use them, but if you do, that’s so sweet as well. Babylanguage is not eveyones cup of tea, but guess what? You are an adorable baby, no matter how or if you speak. Stuffies are annoying? No problem, just don’t use one. Can’t go without carrying at least 5 of them? That’s awesome, too!Age 5-9: Your tutu is blue, eventhough you’re a girl and girls are supposed to wear pink? No. You’re adorable, no matter what color. Oh and you are also still allowed to use a diaper, paci and bottle, if this is, what suits your personality best. If you’re too old for all that jizz jazz, that’s pretty cool too, by the way. And no, you don’t have to be a sassy little one, in order to get all the love from your other half, you can feel and be whatever you want to, because as long as you are happy, we are happy.Age 10-however old you are: You identify as a middle, you listen to punk music, you use lipstick, but underneath your really short skirt is a hidden diaper? That’s alright! It’s also perfectly fine for you to hate bottles, or to love them, to find pacis inappropiate, or to suck on them whenever you can. But please keep in mind: You have to be yourself. If you can not be yourself, how are things going to work?Yes, this was all very complicated, so I’ll give you a very short version of all 3 Steps:Do whatever the fuck you want.And tada, now you’ve become the perfect little! Hope this helped :D

littlesspace:

How to become a perfect little/ babygirl!

I bet a lot of you wondered, how to be the perfect, most appealing and cutest babygirl/boy ever, and since I am a master at this, is will now teach you, how!

Step 1: Cuteness
You may have wondered, how some of us get so incredibly cute, because being cute is such an important trait in our community. It’s actually pretty easy. To become really cute, do the following things: Brush you hair, put on the clothes you feel most adorable in, sit down on the floor with a stuffie and smile. Done. Now you’re cute. There are other ways to become cute, if this didn’t work for you: Take a nice shower, using your favourite shower gel or shampoo, put a towel around your hip or chest, put yourself in front at a mirror and realize how freaking adorable you are. Or: Take a nap, wake up with fuzzy hair and drink something of your choice. Tada, now you’re cute.
If you need more tips on how to become a cute person easily, just ask away!

Step 2: The perfect body
Are you feeling too thin, too chubby, too normal, too adult? I will help you achieve the perfect body for being a little/ babygirl/-boy.
First: Make sure to drink 1,5 - 2 Liter of water or unsugared tea each day. Don’t be upset if you fail at this sometimes, because so do I. Failing is part of our cuteness, mentioned in ‘Step 1: Cuteness’.
Second: Eat at least one healthy thing a day. A tomato, or an apple, some homemade soup or anything else you like, that’s fresh and not full of sugar.
Third: Look at yourself the way you look at other people. Do you scan their skin for imperfections? Do you poke at their bones or bodyfat? Do you think they are disgusing? No. Most people you see, look perfectly fine to you. And guess what, so do you.
Fourth: Done. Once you realized that, you have achieved the perfect body and everyone will start to ask you, how you got such an amazing outer appearance :D

Step 3: Behaviour
This is a more tricky thing, because behaviour depends on what age you represent and what you feel like at that day, but I will try to make this easy for you:
Age 1-5: If you feel like using a diaper, cool for you. But you’re just as amazing, if you don’t. You hate pacifiers? That’s no problem, nobody has to use them, but if you do, that’s so sweet as well. Babylanguage is not eveyones cup of tea, but guess what? You are an adorable baby, no matter how or if you speak. Stuffies are annoying? No problem, just don’t use one. Can’t go without carrying at least 5 of them? That’s awesome, too!
Age 5-9: Your tutu is blue, eventhough you’re a girl and girls are supposed to wear pink? No. You’re adorable, no matter what color. Oh and you are also still allowed to use a diaper, paci and bottle, if this is, what suits your personality best. If you’re too old for all that jizz jazz, that’s pretty cool too, by the way. And no, you don’t have to be a sassy little one, in order to get all the love from your other half, you can feel and be whatever you want to, because as long as you are happy, we are happy.
Age 10-however old you are: You identify as a middle, you listen to punk music, you use lipstick, but underneath your really short skirt is a hidden diaper? That’s alright! It’s also perfectly fine for you to hate bottles, or to love them, to find pacis inappropiate, or to suck on them whenever you can. But please keep in mind: You have to be yourself. If you can not be yourself, how are things going to work?

Yes, this was all very complicated, so I’ll give you a very short version of all 3 Steps:
Do whatever the fuck you want.

And tada, now you’ve become the perfect little!
Hope this helped :D